Drama and Television

Have you ever watched a TV show and shortly realized that the actors/actresses were living your life? No? Well maybe I am just weird (shut it, Jamie ;P) because it has happened to me a lot these past few weeks. Between Grey's Anatomy and Glee it feels like my life has interested thousands of people. Okay, let me be honest...I am no doctor, I am no longer in high school, I do not use medicine to save lives, and I surely can't sing. But outside of the major points of these shows...if you could find some way to look deeper into these shows. Look at the relationships, the problems, the love, pain, hate, joy, hope, and sadness. I believe that if we all look at those we could find a little bit of ourselves. I do. It's what we call "drama" in our lives. We all have it. For me it's the relationships in these shows that hit me in the face and makes me ask "Can two people really love each other that much? Is it even possible for someone to be that cruel? Would my parents really react in that way if I ever told them that? Is that really the world?" But then I look at my own life and realize that these fictional, dramatic, TV shows really aren't that fictional. Only the characters are. The problems and situations are all real. That is what makes them so popular to the public. Because people can relate...and they keep watching because the end is the best part. The end either gives them hope or destruction. If it ends well it tells the world that their problems can end well too. And if it ends bad...well...you get the picture. The end is the most important part. People don't watch for the beginning...they watch for the end. Which leaves me asking..."What do you think your ending will be?"

One Step Forward...Two Steps Back...

If you keep up with my blogs you know that one of my latest blogs was about starting over. Going down the path called "God" instead of "You." So yea...I have started it. I am walking on this path...and well...it's getting rough. I have so many people trying their hardest to encourage me. They do what they think they should do. But instead...they don't know me...and they are actually discouraging me. When I started walking on this path God told me their was a friendship I was going to have to cut off. I didn't want to do it. He said that if I cut it off freely He may build it up again in the future. I didn't want to do it. He asked me three or four times to it. I didn't want to do it. And then I went to church this morning and my dad preached on giving God everything. And I knew...this was the last time He was going to ask. But I didn't want to do it. So...He took it into His own hands and now...the friendship has ended. Probably never to return. This alone has left me with tears pouring down my cheeks as I type this. One step forward...two steps back.

I started to read His word on a daily bases. He told me that I needed to apply it to my everyday life. I got to one scripture...and I didn't want to do it. He said I had to if I wanted to be His disciple. But I didn't want to do it. One step forward...two steps back.

I decided that I would give God my past. He accepted. He asked for my future. I declined. One step forward...two steps back.

When I began to walk on this path I was handed a hand full of decisions. For example: where to live, where to go to school, what relationships I should keep, whether or not to tell people about my change or let them see it, and many more. I prayed about each and every one of these. And then when I make the decision so many people around me tell me I am wrong. So here I am...walking on this path...and I have hit a cliff. I am barely hanging on but hanging on none the less. So many people are around me...talking...telling me what I should do. They are so loud...so loud that I can't hear God. But then...I look up...and there He is...He has grabbed my hands...and He is pulling me up.

I may be stressed...and I may be weak...but God is still holding my hand. He has picked me up...dusted me off...has given me back my Bible...and is now once again...holding my hand...whispering in my ear..."Keep going. You are doing great. Don't give up. Don't be afraid. Don't stop. You got it. I am so proud. I love you..."

It's Time...

IT'S TIME! Those two words can start up a hurricane within your body. They can be put into pretty much any situation. It's time...the baby is coming. It's time...we are going to be late. It's time...to talk. It's time...to say goodbye. It's time...to let go and let God. And my personal favorite...it's time...for change.

Change...what a word. The dictionary says it is to make the form, nature, content, future course, etc., of (something) different from what it is or from what it would be if left alone. Everyone I know has wanted to change something. Whether it was themselves or someone they knew. All through out our lives we go through change. Some of it good. Some of it bad.

My definition for change? Well...my definition...is a little different. My definition is more of a description than a definition, actually. :) Change is what we all go through to make us who we are. I believe there are two types of change. Not just "good" and "bad"...but more like "you" and "God".

We all know the good ol' Robert Frost poem...The Road Not Taken...
"TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth; 5

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same, 10

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back. 15

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference." 20

Well...what if the two roads were labeled "God" (one less traveled" and "You?"

The point I am trying to make is that for the past five years I have taken the road labeled "You". And to be honest...it has gotten me no where. Every now and then I would peep through a tree and look over to the other path. I would then walk through a crowded forest to get to the other side and begin to walk on the road labeled "God". When that got too hard I would run as fast as my legs would carry me to get back to my comfort zone. Well...I say all this to say four simple and complex words...it's time for change. So here I go...I am starting over. I have walked back to the place where it all began. I am at the very beginning of the two roads. I will take a deep breath. Grab a strong hold on my Bible...and start walking. I ask you to please pray for me...pray that when the trees start to bustle...and the birds start to make scary noises...and it starts to get dark...that I just keep walking...if any of you need someone to walk with you down your road. Hit me up. It would be nice to have a friend. Even if none of you are in my position...God is with me...holding my hand...whispering in my ear..."you can do it. Hold tight. You are almost there. You are doing great. Don't give up. I love you..."

Goodbyes...

Okay...so it's time for the thing that EVERYONE hates the most. Come on...you know it's true...we ALL hate saying goodbye. So yea...I figured that the best way to say goodbye to everyone is just by writing a little something something in my blog. haha So yea...here goes...

Liz: Wow hun...we have so many crazy and funny memories and I can't possible tell you how much you mean to me. I love you so much! It is going to be so sad when we tomorrow comes and we say our last goodbyes. You have truly made this year interesting. You were like my mom away from home. You kept me company on the weekends and you always kept me in check. I am so thankful to have you as a friend and I just want to tell you that I love you so much and I hope you have a great summer and when you get to that great big public school you have the best time of your life! I love you girl!

Ari: Honey...my parents always told me that when I got to Trevecca I needed to become friends with you. Not sure why but they did. ;) lol You have been a great friend and I am so happy that I got the opportunity to get to know you. You have a great future ahead of you. Always remember that the only limits you have are the ones you make for yourself. You can do and be whatever you choose to be. I love you so much! Thank you for such a great year!

Holly: Sweetie, you really are the model of the South! You have the look and the accent. I am so happy that you walked into my life and we became friends. We have had so many great times together and I know you will make something of yourself! Don't ever give up! With God all things are possible! I love hun!

Colton: Wow...we haven't known each other for a while but getting to know you has been one of the best things this past year. Thank you so much for the great talks at 2am while I was trying to sleep. My body can't thank you enough. haha Please continue to keep Jamie in check while I am gone. She needs someone like you. She is a little messed up in the head! haha Thanks for a great goodbye party. You are an amazing person! I love you! Have a great summer!

Alyse: hahaha...You have truly been a great friend! We have always used each other as "escapes" from our roommates and I can't possibly thank you enough. You have been such a fantastic friend. I am REALLY going to miss you! I wish you and David the best of luck. Also...good luck in the farming business. Please keep in touch! I love you sweetie!

New York: WOW. That is all. :) hahahahahaha Also..."MORE OVALTINE PLEASE!!!!" I love you girl!

and last but not least...

Jamie: You are my best friend. I am going to miss you...all the great times we have had. All the secrets we have shared and all the "we just got closer" moments. Those are memories I will never forget. You have grown so much this year. And because of you I have grown. You have taught me so much and I am so thankful for that. Saying goodbye to you will be the hardest thing I have to do this year. I hope you have a great time at Union. Figure out what you want to do and try not to change your major so much. ;) I love you. I wouldn't be who I am if it weren't for you. You are such a great person and I know that whatever friends you make in the future are very lucky. Everyone always says "Don't change." when they say their goodbyes...but I don't want to say that...I want to say "change. Do what God wants. Let Him change you...He knows what is best." Also, while you are at Union...and something goes wrong (and face it...it's you...something WILL go wrong) always know you can call me. I will always be around to give you my famous "here is what you gotta do" speeches. I will also send you pictures of my "I think you are making a bad decision" look. God has so much in store for you. He is going to use you and it's going to be great. I know this because He is already doing it. He used you to help me. You really have changed my life. I love you. And always remember...don't be stupid! hahahahaha


Okay...that is all I got. If I forgot you then I am really sorry. So many people have helped change me this year that there is no way I could write everyone a message. Just know that I love all of you and I thank you! You will continue to be in my prayers. Be safe! And always trust God. I hope all of you have a great summer!

God Bless,
Olivia Matthews

Heart Pours Out

As most of you know Nashville and the state of Tennessee has been covered with water. It has stormed for the past two nights and has struck fear into the hearts of most Tennesseans. Many people have lost their homes and many have lost their loved ones. This has really dug deep into my heart and my heart pours out to all of them. Right at this moment I am stuck at school and I can hear sirens in the distance of ambulances and boats trying to get to people whose houses have been polluted with the rain that has fallen from the clouded sky. So many homes are destroyed and thousands of people have no where to stay tonight. I hear that there is more rain to come and so many people have began to panic. Nashville has been deemed as a natural disaster area. I just want to encourage everyone to keep the state of Tennessee in your prayers. I know that as I lay in my bed tonight that my heart, soul, and mind will constantly be in prayer for all of these people who have lost everything and are walking around with no hope. Thank you so much for reading this.

Dear Jamie Marie

I can't tell you how long I have put off writing this letter OR all the times I have started it and torn the paper up and placed it in the trash. Actually, I can. 14 1/2 times. The 1/2 was a rough draft. :) When I left home I never thought I would meet someone like you. Shoot, I never even thought I would be friends with someone like you! But I am so happy that I did. I know you are asking "What does THAT mean??" So let me explain. When I say "someone like you" I mean beautiful, intelligent, confident, and well, preppy. You are just not my cup of tea. ;) Anyways, back to the point, when you read this then that means we are saying our "goodbyes" and going our separate ways. The one thing I want to say in this letter is how blessed I am to have gotten to opportunity to get to know you. I know that our friendship was because of God. I mean think about it...we met at orientation, I thought I would never see you again then BOOM! There you were as my suitemate. Then my roommate! Only God could have made that happen. And all I can say to that is what a great God we have! I have learned so much from you. You taught me not to judge a book by its cover. You and your family also taught me what a true God fearing family is like. I can only hope and pray that when I get older me and my family are just like your. I also learned things like...what your room looks like when you don't clean it, how to be open to nakedness, how to NOT to study, how the simple things matter the most, and most importantly, how to be a best friend.The memories we have together are my most prized possessions. I can honestly say that because of you my freshman year has been incredible. Through many fights, love and tears we have remained best friends. And because of this I know that our friendship can handle anything. Yes, this is goodbye...but after every goodbye there will always be a hello. I will never forget you or your family. I have learned and grown so much because of you guys. All I can say is thank you. I have changed so much this year and it is because of you. I hope and pray that on your journey towards becoming what you want to be that God will bless you. Please remember that you can do anything! Don't limit yourself. You have a lot to learn but don't ever change the fact that God comes first in your life. I will pray for you every night. I hope that when you get to Union you meet someone just like me! :) You need SOMEONE to keep you in line! I love you. Have a great summer and don't give up on what you have learned this past year. I can't wait to see what God has in store for you. God used you to make me who I am. And I know that since I am so great then you will become so much greater. Don't forget me! I will always be around if you need me...plus I have to take my place as maid of honor one day! ;) Well, I guess this is goodbye...stay safe. I love you.

With Love,
Ol'
(Olivia Matthews)